Why is dating so hard for men? Why is it so hard to get a girlfriend?

Updated: Jul 11

If you are wondering why dating is so hard for men and why is it so hard to get a girlfriend, you are on the right track because dating is actually hard for most of men regardless how good looking, rich or smart they are.



Dating Process is fairly complex and hard to master on your own and requires high level of confidence, experience, assertiveness, social and emotional intelligence, which vast majority of men do not have.

In order to be successful in dating you must have experience with women and to have experience you must have initial success which is kind of catch 22.

Now I will explain why Dating/Seduction process has a steep learning curve.

Whether you want a one night stand or long term relationship, make no mistake, every relationship starts with sex. If you don't have sex with a girl, you just have a platonic relationship aka friendship which basically means - nothing.


Lets breakdown Dating process into sequence of steps/skills wich guys need to understand and execute flawlessly in order to get laid, start and maintain relationship:


  1. Understanding Fundamentals for success with women

  2. Scoping for babes in heat – recognize Female signals of interest

  3. How to approach women

  4. Talk with a girl directly and attractively

  5. Make an instadate

  6. Take her number and filter out time-wasters

  7. When and how to text a girl to land a date

  8. Plan and set up a productive date that leads to sex

  9. Maintain Momentum

  10. Touch a girl to turn her on

  11. When and how to kiss a girl on the first date

  12. Pull a girl to your or her place

  13. Taking ownership and full responsibility for what is about to happen

  14. Foreplay

  15. Transition from foreplay to sex

  16. Overcome potential objections and resistance

  17. Sex: How to excel - the best positions to make her cum

  18. Hard and long-lasting erections every time – Naturally

  19. How to give her orgasm

  20. Why having Sex ASAP and performing great is important

  21. Cuddling and aftercare

  22. How to establish a deep connection with a girl

  23. Make her fall in love with you and keep her loyal

  24. Maintaining the relationship


NOW THE MOST IMPORTANT FACT

If you fail at any of the steps in the process, a girl will almost never give you a second chance and she will most likely ghost you. Therfore you effectively have to start all over again (with a new girl) each time you fail at any of the steps in seduction process. There is a massive learning curve in order to learn how to smoothly execute each one of these steps with a lot of trial and error. (I had clients who were trying and failing for more than 10 years beffore they found me and I coached them and set them up for success)


On top of this, Dating, Pickup and Seduction process is not teached at school/university. Prety much all of the "officially educated" relationship counselors are useless. How are they going to coach you if they haven't had more than 5 girlfriends themselves on average.


On top of this majority od popular YouTube Dating Coaches and "Pickup Artists" come from "nerd" background and are simply inexperienced/unqualified enough to train others and they tend to produce overcomplicated, usseless and confusing learning material.

The typical examples of these are companies and coaches like RSD (Real Social Dynamics), PUA Mystery, Natural Lifestyles, Based Zeus, Todd V, Tripp Advice etc).

The typical case is when you have a "nerd" guy who identifies himself with some of these coaches who have nerdy vibe, looks or vocal tonality. They think: "This guy is nerdy, same like myself, so he must be a good one to coach me. Right?"

Wrong!

If you need to learn mathematics would you take a private lessons with a teacher who barely finished his training or with teacher who won bunch of international competitions? If you were to learn Boxing would you rather have a coach who entered a ring few times in his life or a coach who is world class hevyweight champion? If you were to become fit would you hire a fat coach to train you in the gym? If you were sick and need a surgery would you rather go to inexperienced novice surgeon or to a world class top surgeon at his prime?

If you are about to learn how to make money would you hire a poor person to coach you how to do this or would you rather learn from Warren Buffett?


So why bunch of guys follow and hire these nerdy vibe dating coaches? Because it is easier to identify with a looser "who worked his way out of being a looser" if you are a looser. It gives you a false hope.


Majority of Dating Coaches show 0 results and receipts (proof that themselves are successful with women like photos and videos with women).

They talk the talk yet don’t walk the walk.


I walk the walk my whole life, and I’m going to teach you how to do the same! I’m in the game for the last 16 years, with over 1000 lay count in 42 countries. Coaching guys how to excell with women at my Live Infield Trainings hosted on 5 continents.

I was never a nerd. I lost my virginity back when I was 15 years old due to my exceptional social and emotional intelligence I displayed at an early age.

But beffore you trust me or you buy my book or services I want you to go scroll down to the near bottom of my homepage and my portfolio page to see what da fuck I am talking about.

If dating for you looks like a mountain, note that for me it is merely a bump in a road.


This is why I embarked on a mission to Help 1 Million Guys to SMASH. I want to devirginize the West! Someone real has to teach you.


I wrote SMASH From Zero to Hero eBook for the masses. In this eBook I have explained in a simple, easily understandable way (42 pages of core knowledgde) how to pickup, seduce, get laid, and maintain successful long term relationship with women. This book is 100% applied intersexual dynamics, condensed knowledge every man should know. In this book there is no filer text, academic data, any theory or analytics bullshit in order to make book thicker!

The idea behind my book was how to make it as easy and streamlined as possible so that you can easily apply it in real life with great success. Someone will say that my book worth is less because it has fewer pages but in fact this is precisely the reason why it is better than other dating and pickup books. Because I filtered out all the bullshit to make it easy for you.


By reading my eBook SMASH from Zero to Hero you will be standing on the shoulders of giants and your dating life will benefit from my massive experience. I have mastered, perfected and refined the Seduction process to get you in the fast track quickly.


I want you to read my book 5 times. Have it on your mobile phone so that in case you forget something, and you are currently at specific step in seduction process with a girl, you can always take 2 min read the chapter that you need at that moment and than apply what you have read. Do not try to improvise or modify the process. Just apply step by step what you have learned and you will do great.


Dating made easy!


Coached by Andreas Ardent, The Infamous 1000+ lay count Dating Coach for Men on a mission to devirginize the West

https://www.andreasardent.com/



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